Comments on: Am I naive? http://www.vista-crew.com/2008/08/16/am-i-naive/ Diary of a group of friends... Mon, 08 Aug 2011 21:56:46 +0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: A-lex http://www.vista-crew.com/2008/08/16/am-i-naive/comment-page-1/#comment-2542 A-lex Tue, 19 Aug 2008 12:32:35 +0000 http://wlwc.vista-crew.com/?p=164#comment-2542 Jeff> Maybe you are right. But really wanna used me please la... say it nicely, reject with a proper way so nobody feel used. Although guys got bigger heart but being used is not what everyone want. Except for those who are blind in love. :P Jeff> Maybe you are right. But really wanna used me please la… say it nicely, reject with a proper way so nobody feel used.

Although guys got bigger heart but being used is not what everyone want. Except for those who are blind in love. :P

]]> By: Jeff http://www.vista-crew.com/2008/08/16/am-i-naive/comment-page-1/#comment-2541 Jeff Sun, 17 Aug 2008 18:22:44 +0000 http://wlwc.vista-crew.com/?p=164#comment-2541 dude.. seriously, i thought this was way long ago.. Chill man.. gals change their mind quickly, that's a fact we guys all know.. and that's why we gotta get used to it.. and biar saje.. IMHO, this is a small matter, sure being angry temporary is totally understandable.. I'd definitely would be.. but after that, just chill lor.. we guys got bigger heart, so we nid to let go only.. that's the truth man.. dude.. seriously, i thought this was way long ago.. Chill man.. gals change their mind quickly, that’s a fact we guys all know..

and that’s why we gotta get used to it.. and biar saje.. IMHO, this is a small matter, sure being angry temporary is totally understandable.. I’d definitely would be.. but after that, just chill lor..

we guys got bigger heart, so we nid to let go only.. that’s the truth man..

]]> By: A-lex http://www.vista-crew.com/2008/08/16/am-i-naive/comment-page-1/#comment-2540 A-lex Sun, 17 Aug 2008 14:46:51 +0000 http://wlwc.vista-crew.com/?p=164#comment-2540 Nick Au> Erm... I dont know you get what i wanna mention anot. and i dunno which you mentioning. Maybe you dont feel it that way. She invited me to go for an event *the 1st case* and i do agreed to go with which she comfirmed about it too. If she really dont want me to go why invite me at the 1st place? Why not just tell me straight on the day she invited me? If she wanna hang out with her own friend and dont want me around then dont bother to invite me at all. Dont make a promise saying will go with me and later on tell me to bait out because she had invited another person which i dont hang out close with. It just making me feel like i am a backup if she cant invite friend to go with or no friend invite her to hang out with. Then only she will hang out with me. As for the 2nd case because of the 1st case i become bit sensitive as i had the feeling of being used again, that's all. I do invite people stimultaneously, but i do make sure that people i invited can hang out together and not because another friend wanna hang out with and i have to cancel all the plan i make with other people because my friend wanna hang out with me. I dont cancel plan no matter how close is the person who invite me. Which plan come 1st, I stick to that plan. 1st come 1st serve. Unless it is an urgent matter. Mind explain why you label that obsessing? You dont feel bad when you are being used? Why cant guy emo? or maybe you are the type of people who think gay/lesbian is wrong? huh? If you are older than me, i bet you see the world more than me and know there are alot of unexpected things appear/happen around the world. P.S: please read carefully. She invited me and I said yes to join her. Nick Au> Erm… I dont know you get what i wanna mention anot. and i dunno which you mentioning. Maybe you dont feel it that way. She invited me to go for an event *the 1st case* and i do agreed to go with which she comfirmed about it too. If she really dont want me to go why invite me at the 1st place? Why not just tell me straight on the day she invited me? If she wanna hang out with her own friend and dont want me around then dont bother to invite me at all. Dont make a promise saying will go with me and later on tell me to bait out because she had invited another person which i dont hang out close with.

It just making me feel like i am a backup if she cant invite friend to go with or no friend invite her to hang out with. Then only she will hang out with me.

As for the 2nd case because of the 1st case i become bit sensitive as i had the feeling of being used again, that’s all.

I do invite people stimultaneously, but i do make sure that people i invited can hang out together and not because another friend wanna hang out with and i have to cancel all the plan i make with other people because my friend wanna hang out with me. I dont cancel plan no matter how close is the person who invite me. Which plan come 1st, I stick to that plan. 1st come 1st serve. Unless it is an urgent matter.

Mind explain why you label that obsessing? You dont feel bad when you are being used? Why cant guy emo? or maybe you are the type of people who think gay/lesbian is wrong? huh? If you are older than me, i bet you see the world more than me and know there are alot of unexpected things appear/happen around the world.

P.S: please read carefully. She invited me and I said yes to join her.

]]> By: Nick Au http://www.vista-crew.com/2008/08/16/am-i-naive/comment-page-1/#comment-2539 Nick Au Sun, 17 Aug 2008 04:33:09 +0000 http://wlwc.vista-crew.com/?p=164#comment-2539 Oh my gosh! You must be a woman in your past life la. You're so emo-ish for a guy!! My 2 cent's is that people don't owe it to you to go out with you. Everyone can make their own choices. Moreover she just said she invited you, even myself sometimes I invite other people simultaneously. Who knows who's free. Stop being such a woman la, maybe people would start hanging out with you again. You are an epitome of small boy syndrome (I'm assuming that you're at least 17 and above). Grow up and mature, things would iron itself out. Life's too short to write emo post like this. Alternatively go pick a hobby and stop obsessing. Oh my gosh! You must be a woman in your past life la. You’re so emo-ish for a guy!!

My 2 cent’s is that people don’t owe it to you to go out with you. Everyone can make their own choices.

Moreover she just said she invited you, even myself sometimes I invite other people simultaneously. Who knows who’s free.

Stop being such a woman la, maybe people would start hanging out with you again. You are an epitome of small boy syndrome (I’m assuming that you’re at least 17 and above).

Grow up and mature, things would iron itself out. Life’s too short to write emo post like this.

Alternatively go pick a hobby and stop obsessing.

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