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Wonder why I writing the cheater post? Cause I really don’t understand why people wanna cheat on their partner.

Here is the story I thought of before coming out with that post.


He is a friend of mine, Adrian. He was been known among friends as the playboy as he flirt around with girls. Just flirting. Untill one day, he met someone he really wanna be with. With his charm, he managed to get the girl’s heart and they are together for 2 years. What cause that relationship to end is because the guy cheated on the girl. As simple as that. The reason because Adrian got feeling for another girl. How it been discover? The girl accidently found out about their smses because he leaves his handphone while he goes for toilet and the phone got incoming sms!
So, they break up, Adrian is with that another girl but only for few month and gone too. My friend is single currently but he has changed. Before he is back into the single bachelor club, he has few more relationship with different girls, while he is with his exes, he is loyal to them and did not ever cheated on them. That’s a good sign.

That’s why I said cheater can change but have to depend on that person too. If cannot control, the same thing gonna repeat again.

So, for those serial cheaters, I really don’t know what is going on with their mind. Maybe what they want is just playing around with guys and get hook up as much as possible. Maybe they are going for their money. There are serial cheater who cheat because they cannot get what they want from the current boyfriend/girlfriend. Either it is material, sexual or feeling. Eventually they will come back to the current one because the current one is still the best although they might not get what they want. Another reason is they are afraid of the breakup symptom.

I don’t mind when a person is single and have few no string attached boyfriends/girlfriends cause do not hurt any feeling as everyone is happy with what they have. So, when is time to end just end la, no hard feeling. But for those who are in relationship with others, what’s reason for you to cheat anyway? To the extent treating your crush as your boyfriend/girlfriend, feel them like yours lover, give whatever they ask for. Somemore make love with them if you feel like doing it or your crush asked for it. Do you think of your boyfriend/girlfriend’s feeling when you doing it? You wanna go date with them, why not just kept it as normal friend kind of date? Even dating other guy/girl is considered cheating ady, what’s more with sleeping with them. It just sounds so wrong. For a person who did it once, I still believe they can change just like my friend, Adrian. But repeating it no matter once or twice or three times, that is just wrong.

No matter what excuses/reason you give, no one gonna take it seriously. Cause there is no reason for you to cheat. Cheating is for cowards who don’t have the courage to tell their partner what is going on. Or maybe you brave enough to cheat on your partner but not brave enough to face them and tell them that maybe the relationship should be over? How pathetic.

So, tell me, what do you think of people who cheat? What is their reason for doing it? What does the cheated on side will think? And what is the cheater will think when someone cheater on them too?

Feel blessed if you are not caught on cheating on your partner either in the current state or in your past. But that are the guilt you will carry along your life. If you are not regret about it and don’t feel guilty about it then I have no comments on it. All I can say, everything you told your friend is a lie.

People tent to realize what is more important to them when they lost it. Which is too late by that time

P.S: Sorry to the guy friend that I bring up his story. But I know he learnt his lesson.:P

P.S.S: The whole article is written based on what I know and what I read and what people told me about what they think about cheater. There are people who don’t speak directly to their friend who cheat due:
Either they are not nosy parkers
Or they just don’t care what you doing, you get hurt is your own business, they just not that free to deal with your problem, as long as you don’t drag them in your problem
Or they lazy to say anything
Even people who speak directly, what they say maybe not be 100% correct but at least what they said is truth. Just that the truth is always hard to be accept. Don’t wait till everything is gone then you only regret what you did not treasure it. C Slept with C. C have KFC for breakfast and C have C on the bed for breakfast