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How you define the freedom between you and your partner?
How you define the space needed by both of you?
What type of privacy you want for yourself?
I don’t have the exact answer nor do my friends can provide. Everything written is based on discussion and observation.

Taking benefit from people around us are what we human do as long as it do not cause problem for either side. But by doing that for self’s enjoyment and satisfaction, to fulfill own lust. That’s is just something diffirent.

I do take advantages on other people but at least is allowed by them.

Based on what you know bout your partner? Hmm… this is a really complicated question to be answer. You can’t really define the freedom you going to give and the personal space that you think it is suitable for both of you. It changes accordingly to the current situation and environment. That’s what I know.

Some people get together but they do not know bout their partner and they interpret the wrong side of the person. Let’s not say the wrong side but not a 101% complete true of the person. This gives chance for the opposite to take advantages of the privileges of you who exposed 100% of yourself. True that everyone has their own dark side and secret that their partner should not know but if is something that already there before both of you get together then that is something unavoidable and should be kept secret as long as you are still breathing.

Somehow, things you might not do or done before, did happen when you are in love or let’s said in couple status. It has a lot of facts and reasons that something occurs and change the way you look at things and your behavior. But it still related to the freedom and personal space given by your partner. I mean when you are single, you don’t even think that it is not right to do. In another hand, you don’t have the courage to do it as you yourself have some principles for yourself. Once your status change, you see things the different way, and you develop a freedom personal space for yourself and your partner based you what you know bout your partner. True?

Still, if that particular action/behavior/personality can’t be accept by your partner, both of you will not be together, right? Like I said, when someone status changed the point of view of the person will change too, how much it change depend on themselves too. So, if is something unharmed or is a positive change then I believe no one will pay attention at it.

What if it becomes something that can’t be known by the partner and your friend? Then it is up to you to deal with it. No point telling you what to do as it might not get into your head as it get more and more irritating. This happen every time when you did something relevance or similar to the wrong doing we done. One true fact, they don’t believe we can shake it off and might repeating it. Me myself believe that it is true as I also hate that when people don’t believe I can stop it. Like the old said, the more bitter the medicine the better it is.

Just remember this.
Did it once, it can be still be forgive and forget. Who in the world are perfect without any wrong doing.
Did it twice, you yourself must really sit down and figure out what wrong with you.
Did it the third time, you are just looking for trouble. No point forgiving you anymore.

This is just a common sense that being passing around among the people and it is not a 100% must be done kinda thing. It is all your choices to take that advices anot.

Trust is something hard to build but it is easy to be destroyed. Not just lovership, so do for other relationship. Live life to the fullness but do it the right way.