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Had a conversation with one old lady (that’s what she labelled herself as). Not old la… Attractive, fun, caring and smart. She is just… how to say le… 30? Some said it is the most perfect moment of lady, just like Chateau Lafite-Rothschild Vintage 1978, perfect timing to drink right now. A success woman too as you want to know, single somemore.

The conversation is short, but gives a clear view of what a matured adult think from her own view and life experience.

Question revolved around cheating.
She answered with an example of her own that her ex-boyfriend cheated on her. She even told me that one of her married friend cheated on her husband until it gets too wild and got caught. The reason she cheats I think is either she is addicted or maybe something happens between the couple. I don’t remember exactly. She is the serial cheater type, you know, no regret on doing it.

But one thing she don’t know which is some people cheat but regret and then they cheat again after some time. She got no idea on that. Some happen even there is no reason for them to cheat, maybe got but we don’t know.

I remember watching one show on tv which it help people to investigate do their partner cheated on them. Forgot what’s the show name but I remember one of the stories. It involved a married couple. The lady suspicious that the guy cheated on her so she seeks for help lo. In the end, she caught the guy red handed with a tranny hold a whips spanking his ass. O_O Reason? Because the lady do not want to have that kind of action in their sex life. OMG! Paid a tranny for that. OMG X 100. At least get a proper girl la.. memalukan only.

Anyway, she told me that every cheating needs a motive to trigger. So, eventually everyone will cheat, depend also la.. What’s the reason. Even married couple also can cheat on their partner, so what’s wrong for those who haven’t engaged, right? As for single status, lagi worst no string attached play depend on self capability.

There is so much to learn, understand and adapt to which is one of the motive that push me to go forward. *Not just sex, love and cheating la… include other stuff like life experience, culture, lifestyle and etc… in short the world lo* That’s why I love listen to other’s stories. But I do think that we might not learn it all, if we do, we might be the founder of a new religion.

I may get very busybody if I got the mood to get to know things. Which is good and bad. XD

When someone said ” Too bad you already got boyfriend/girlfriend, If not I might take action” to you.

Assume you had crush on that person, do you feel that that person just push your button?

Dating other people when you are attached sound wrong but it does no harm when both of you are just friend. Still depend on the limitation, objectives, scope, boundaries, and functionalities one make up. RIGHT?

Does this consider appropriate? I mean the feeling you have when the person said that even you are attached. Moreover, will you go over the edge??