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Yesterday I noticed my friend msn’s personal message written an interesting sentences like this

“女人无所谓正派，正派是因为受到的诱惑不够;男人无所谓忠诚，忠诚是因为背叛的筹码太低！”

Translation : “There is no way to define how honest is a lady, as honesty is formed cause of there is not enough of temptation; There is no way to define how loyalty is a guy, as loyalty is formed due to the betting chip of betrayal is too low!”

What say you?

How do you all handle question that required you to answer sincerely? Do you just give it your thought and answer or rephrase the sentences so it does not sound like is your thought and is from other people’s thought with a little mixing of yours.
I been into situation where a person ask me a question and I give straight forward answer with a little addition information on what I read. After a couple of days, I was scolded for being judgmental over the issue.
And after a couple weeks, the same question pop up again. So, I try not to be so straight forward and I give an answer sound like “me and my friends discuss this issue before, so I reveal a bit of yours and try to get some answer. What my friend said……” And I get scolded on the spot for telling to other people.
Being straight forward, label as judgmental. Rephrase + twist around + include ‘fake’ friends’ opinion, label as betrayer or big mouth.
At one point, I really wanna say “If you don’t like the way I answer your question, don’t ever ask me”. You want my opinion, I give you my opinion. There will not be a 3rd party answer for you. Ops…. There is but that the way to avoid you to judge me saying I being judgmental and I don’t know anything about that issue.

Yea… I am talking to you… You are a slut and that’s who you are. What you did and behave created this image in mind. Not because your friend doesn’t understand your reasons but is what you do does not convince your friend that you are not. You don’t want to be label as that but you are willing to do it when you feel so. So, stop fucking around with my friend asking for opinion that you don’t really wanna hear of and go talk to those who understand you. Go find those who enjoy being around different men at night, they will understand you more than us, the normal people.

And you, my friend, don’t tolerance. Ignore her if possible.

“Oh.. she let other guys do this.. do that to her… but why not me? *CRY CRY CRY….* ”
“You wanna know why?
That is because I’m NOT attacted to you!
You’re NOT her type!”

I only allow people to get close to me only if I feel comfortable with them. And if they do get close to me, doesn’t means they all sleep with me.

When someone said something like this, people might thought of…
If the person is your type, you are attracted to him/her. He/Her is allow to get close to you if you feel comfy with them and might get the chance to sleep with you.
*based on you knowing that she been sleeping with other guy*

She is just another girl enjoying being around guys. Enjoying the sensuality.
*based on you don’t know her*

She is a horny player la. Would sleep with whoever suit her taste.
*If she got boyfriend, add the following line to the statement.*
Somemore cheated on boyfriend, can’t get what she want from the boyfriend. Didnot even think of the boyfriend before doing it. Only think of her own.
*based on what is the story about + if she got a boyfriend*

Whatever excuses or explanations is not enough to cover what ones have done. *quote from you know who you are* Just be judgmental as much as you want.
Just some of many assumptions made.

P.S: What a pity friend of my to fall in love to such girl.

Wonder why I writing the cheater post? Cause I really don’t understand why people wanna cheat on their partner.

Here is the story I thought of before coming out with that post.
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Temptation are always hard to control. The feel of adrenaline rush just feel so GREAT! I just got addicted to it. The satisfaction after it, DOUBLE THE GREATE!
That’s why is good to be naughty.

F***ing emo till waking up so early…. vous trompé sur votre partenaire
And F*** FYP too. =_= || big time.

What do you think of this scenario.

Let’s give the person a name, Mariana.
Mariana invited you attend an event in the coming week. You replied that you are willing to go with. Just 2 days before the event, Mariana called and said that she invited a friend (B) too before you on that day; Mariana invited you to the event. And B agreed to go with too. You and B know each other but not close. So, Mariana said that because both of you don’t know each other and don’t want you to feel awkward when hanging out so she hinted you to bait out. Mariana did not reject on that day because you are a good friend so she feel not nice for rejecting you.

I can tell you the friend of Mariana (B) is a guy , Mariana knows B not long ago but they meet each other thru another friend and not close to. They get close and contact recently on another event.

After that incident, I decided not to join Mariana for an outing plan 1 week ago cause I got other stuff to do. Then when, Mariana asked why, I tell Mariana that part of the reason is, Mariana is using me as back up because for that particular event so I don’t feel nice and I decided not to join her for the coming event. What’s Mariana replied is “My bad then”. From what I know bout Mariana, so I did not wanna mess up the issue so I accepted that so called apologize.

Things still ok after that. Till one day, Mariana called up and asked am I free for that night as, Mariana wanna catch up with me. Since I am free that night so I tell Mariana that I am ok with the plan. Mariana tells me she will call back and confirm about the outing as deciding where to go. After awhile, Mariana message and tell me that she gonna skip tonight plan. So, I ended up asking can I come over and Mariana tell me that she is going out due to somebody invited her for outing. At that moment, I feel that I am just a backup plan for Mariana that night again. She did not even ask me it is ok to skip tonight plan and straight away cancel it on her own. Although we have decided to hang out together but haven’t decided to go where yet and as Mariana like to do random act so I did not plan any either. But, just canceling like that just making me feel that I being used again.
If the friend of her did not ask her out, she will continue our plan. So, it means if got friend invited her to hang out and she will cancels our plan without asking me. Doesn’t it make me look like a backup outing plan?

It that the way to treat a friend? Or it is me being too sensitive/naive over something? Opinion, anyone?

P.S.: I don’t know how close she is with A and the friend of her. So, make your own assumption.